December 1, 2017

It's the first of the month!!

Every 1st I have a lovely practice of sitting down and reviewing my calendar for the month prior, writing down victories and joys and areas I can grow in the month ahead. The lists are quite long and full of love. But it wasn't always this...

September 26, 2017

For the last three years, I've made my living as an entrepreneur. I launched a company based on Love and Sexual Health with the goal of creating and distributing organic products and valuable information and it was a miserable, beautiful, failure.

Spending the better pa...

September 1, 2017

A decade ago, when I was secretly writing poetry in the middle of the night on 

sorting out a heart breaking end of marriage, it was easy to post my whole heart.

Literally nobody read it - and there was no chance of being found out, called out, twe...

August 25, 2017

Our alarm went off at 5:55 am and was ignored.

At 6:16 we realized that our oldest child's alarm was also ignored.

We now had exactly 34 minutes before the front door needed to shut behind them as he took our teenager to the bus for the last day of the first full week of...

August 15, 2017

I've never been particularly fond of choosing the easiest path with paved roads and manicured lawns. I prefer the dirt, the dust, the wild brush and unfurling foliage of the unexpected curves. I am someone compelled by the challenge of the climb. I am pretty sure my hu...

August 12, 2017

Thank you to all who have shown up in support this past week.

You are right, I was fed up and needed to make some serious changes in how I am showing up in my own life and who and how I let others show up. Reclaiming my climb is step one. I am making some big commitment...

August 4, 2017

And now, a micro blog: What's your gut telling you? Instinct, intuition, inspiration are curated skills. Like anything, we can choose to become better at the skill of using our intuition to make authentic and powerful decisions. I personally have been working on this a...

August 25, 2016

Originally Posted on

August 25, 2016 by Summers Love Company

Dear Love Tribe,

Thank you so very much Social Media for keeping humor in our lives and juxtaposing the emotionally exhausting, empowering and encouraging with the hilarious. This past week...

July 26, 2016

Originally Posted on

July 26, 2016 by Summers Love Company

Dear Love Tribe,

Sometimes you just don’t have it in you to be romantic. Sometimes life becomes so intense, obligations become overwhelming, the kids, the bills, the job, the family, the world make...

June 8, 2016

Rape, Brock Turner and why I do my job in Sexual Health Education

 Originally posted on June 8, 2016 by Summers Love Company at

 Summers Love Company

I've wrestled with emotions around the Brock Turner Rape conviction and have remained quiet on t...

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