See what I just did there? Yeah, I took the exact same quality and looked at it through two very different shades.
Earlier today, I was corresponding with a friend from Colorado days about dating adventures. He shared with me the online disaster that had started as a great first few dates and ended when she put that guy from Swingers (the one with the inability to stop leaving messages for that girl he liked) to shame, with a four minute emotional roller coaster of a message..........
Obsessive, emotional, passionate, determined to get her point across.... She scared him right back online!!!
......... So I've like totally done that. Of course my version usually involves terribly poetic emails, long texted epiphanies, followed by urgently apologetic texts for my behavior. I've listened to songs on repeat for hours making up the perfect fairy tale in my mind. I get hooked.... A LOT!!! I admitted to my friend that there are probably quite the handful of men who consider me bat scat nuts.